THE COST OF LEADING WELL
Ministry leadership is among the most demanding callings in existence. The weight is real—the
expectations relentless, the pace unsustainable, and the soul often neglected while caring for everyone else.
Most leaders don't hit a wall. They drift. And by the time they notice, the distance in their marriage and the depletion in their soul have already taken a toll.
10|10 Ministries was built for this moment. We provide the space, structure, and professional
expertise to help ministry leaders and their spouses do the deep work that leads to lasting health, stronger marriages, and faithful ministry for the long haul.
Service Name
SIGNATURE INTENSIVE
Retreats
Five days. One couple. Two professional counselors. Fully private.
Experience the equivalent of four months of counseling in a carefully designed five-day retreat created specifically for ministry couples facing exhaustion, disconnection, or the slow drift that can
come with years of faithful leadership.
Every retreat is completely private and personalized, allowing our counseling team to focus entirely on your story, your marriage, and your next steps.
Now Available
Beyond (Married) Roommates
When did it start feeling like roommates? Most couples can't pinpoint the moment. It just happens. You share a home, a calendar, and a life, but you lost connection some where along the way. You've become good at coexisting, merely going through the motions.
But it doesn't have to stay that way.
Beyond (Married) Roommates is a hands-on workbook built around 10 practical tools that help you move from drifting to finding your way back to each other. Drawn from what truly works, by two counselors who've walked hundreds of couples toward deeper connection, this faith-based workbook includes direct teaching, real exercises, honest reflection, and conversations worth having...together.
You'll learn to recognize what's creating distance, communicate in ways that actually land, repair what's been broken, and rediscover what makes your marriage uniquely yours.
This is your marriage. It's yours to unlock.​
THE FOUNDATION
10|10 Ministries was founded on the conviction that those who faithfully care for others also need
intentional, professional care for themselves.
Born out of decades of counseling ministry and a deep understanding of the unique pressures
faced by ministry leaders, 10|10 developed a model of intensive care designed specifically for
pastors, ministry leaders, missionaries, and their spouses.
Today, 10|10 Ministries serves leaders from across the United States and around the world through
private intensive retreats, professional counseling, and trusted ministry resources—all designed to
help leaders flourish in life, marriage, and ministry.
WHAT MINISTRY COUPLES SAY
Hundreds of ministry couples from churches and organizations across the country and around the world have experienced renewed hope, healthier marriages, and deeper personal healing through 10|10 Ministries. Here's what they experienced.
"We’re in a much better place than we were before the retreat! There is a calm and carefree spirit in our home. We feel strongly connected to each other, like we’re on the same team. We have hope again!"
Bridget Asheim
Executive Director of HopeKids North Texas, Keller, TX
"Pleasantly surprised this was not a typical cheesy christian-eezy thing. It was raw and real. We communicated about sensitive issues for the first time in awhile."
Michaela De Vries
Spouse of Pastor, Walnut Creek, CA
PRIVATE. PERSONAL. INTENTIONAL.
Unlike conference-style marriage retreats, every 10|10 intensive is designed for one ministry couple at a time. There are no group sessions, no sharing with strangers, and no one-size-fits-all approach—just focused, confidential care tailored to your unique story.